Say what???

So Zayden Just turned 4 on monday! (will blog about that later...) but last week I was sitting in the kitchen trying to prepare for dinner and in he walks and this is our conversation....

Zayden- mommy can I have a snack?
M-No I am making dinner?
Z- Please I am REALLY starvin?...
M- No you can wait.
Z - ugh... you're really tickin me off dude!

Seriously??? and then, we are all in the family room playing and horsing around and zayden looks at kyler and says "daddy, you are a selfish Jerk pck." !!!! What the??? So we asked him where he had heard this saying and ... wait for it... he said "uncle Skye"!!! So of course we start laughing uncontrollably until we realize probably not ok to do infront of Z. So we ask him what it means... and he replies... "mommy it just means that daddy is SO funny. He just cracks me up..." So needless to say we then had to explain to him what it really meant so he would not repeat to someone else... i.e. his primary teacher. grandparents or best friend with whom he is with every day and proclaims to marry someday... What can I say... "kids say the darndest things!"

Expectaions........and Romance....

So anyone that KNOWS my husband is totally gonna laugh at this post... So I always have such high expectations when it comes to Romance and holidays, like my birthday, our anniversary, valentines and christmas. I also just keep thinking that Kyler will randomly bring home flowers or leave a note on my pillow... Yeah.... there is a VERY good chance that I married the least romantic man on this earth. Not that he isn't a great husband and father.... just not a romantic one! and even though I have told him time and time again how to romance a person, given him several books and make him watch silly romance comedies with me.... NOTHING!!!! the last time I got flowers was our first Valintines day together. and they were Carnations!!! the ugliest flower ever! ( sorry if you like them!) the last time he planned a romantic evening or even just date night??? NEVER!!!! oh wait he did romance me when we were dating! so like 6 weeks! Anyway, you would think I would just give up and realize it is never going to happen! but I foolishly admitt I will probably continue to hope and I will probably continue to get dissappointed. One thing I know for sure and I know will never change, is how much I love him. it makes everything else ok. I LOVE HIM!!!! So even though this seems like a Kyler bashing blog, it's not. And for all you ladies out there with romantic men... please continue to share your stories so I can Vicariously live through you! haha. The End.